CONSEQUENCE .. of matters is talking about what happens when you don’t trust your gut instinct, how to remove your self from toxic people around you, how to invision your self in a better place and actually be there one day , I grew up in small town america, nothing was handed to me everything i got i earned I worked as a child laborer learning the importance of hard work, play never got you much , but trouble , my mother taught me to work hard because , that is what she had to do . who else will help you feed your children if you didnt rise early and work hard ? MY father abandoned my when i was young so having a father around was not an option, i worked to help my mother with my siblings and proud today of that , You have to do it yourself , nobody gives a standing ovation for the hard working mothers of the world women have always been leaders , not saying men are not , but no one pays attention to the strength women truely possess, when i speak on women an strength the first person come to mind is harriet tubman ,. i get shivers just thinking about that type of strength , i had not in my life heard of too many women men white or black with her type of determination and leadership., by all means necessary was written by malcolm x but meant for her, this remarkable little short woman , with a sack of food on her back and a gun in her hands , could only be compared to moses, god spoke to her . dont ask me how he did it , your out of touch with god if you just cant imagine . i happen to believe in his words and i truely believe we are governed by his mystical guiding hands in all we do . , and he teaches lessons as well , and if you say well if there was god why is bad things happening to us ., then i say to you . keep living if you think your worst is here then keep living , and forget to thank him every day ., my understand of the god i know is he is power and a being also , he sent jesus to earth to show us the way to him ., its up to us, to know him this is a gift you are given as a child an baby. you lose that and don’t listen to what your parents your preacher in church, by a certain age your lost, if your parents dont teach you he will so there is no way that you dont know . your anger, or disconnect can divide you from truth as you grow let your knowlege of spirit grow too.
Consequences of what we create in life is powerful, we are responsible for each other , if your neigbor is sick you bring soup, you go to school and help teach your kids right from wrong . be a substitute parent ., if your co worker feels sick help them with their duties , if your angry about something take a few minutes to process the core of the issue and try to resolve it at best, before it becomes a wild fire out of control ., split second bad decisions come everyday every minute , in our lives AND has destroyed man men.
children actually do learn from adults , if you curse around them they will curse , if you fight around them they will grown angry and use fighting to resolve issues , they are not stupid they know your responsiblity better than you do . grand parents are just as responsible as parents in what they instill in children .
you cant say your exempt from responsiblity of them . they are your flesh and responsiblity as well rather your biological are adopted kid, you need to be responsible for what you say and do in their presence.
i use to believe in spanking of children as a form of discipline and that is only because i grew up seeing this in my neighborhood my home. the children who i witness spanking including me grew up fine. and healthy .but lately our society is saying no this will not work , prayer in school was abolished, and spanking went first. is this right to do? i say yes because you are not gonna resolve the new generation of children. with spankings . children have a harder life to live . with all the crime around them and fear they have , all the bullying in school that now exist , has already manifested it self into our culture . kids are glued on cell phones and computors now learning of their rights in the home and on the streets, including when approached by a police even.. i met a lady who could not find a nanny job because when you do a background check on her there is a case of child abuse there where she got into a fight with her 13 year old son about him leaving the house . when she told him he was punished and on house duties . and restricted he flew into a rage. she fought him. police was called she got a charge on her of assault.
he tried to get out she tried to stop him injuring him instead ., she told me she could not find jobs and when she try to explain the fact he was out of order they did’nt believe her .
parents its hard raising them , no one is gonna give you a medal even if you do it right , the moment you let them do as they please your asking for trouble . you have to limit them and be firm . if they never got a cell phone your fear is they would steal one right? or do something bad to get one ? true but you must remain stern on any issues with you children . i myself worked as a nanny for 20 years fun job but very hardk the pay was excellent , but the challenges were deep in triumph and learning . my own children adopted were good kids tough teenagers , but still turned out good. no one went to jail etc. but times were hard.
when i was a kid we couldnt ask for nothing we knew our parents could not afford , we could not pout or we were put on punishment for weeks on in that was called sassing your parents .smile a southern word used to describe out of control.
i speak on this because , i grew up understanding the importance of listening to parents god know i did’nt listen at times and was punished . but i’m still grateful for that punishment cause i would have though i could do what i please as an adult . all the sinceless child murders in the last few years , are just plain sad, but society as a whole has a hugh hand in this . we rally cry for change but forget the small changes in the home has to come before the big changes can occure anywhere . we need to get prioritized what we gotta do and LETS DO IT ..
LITTLE BLACK CHILDREN .. are pointed out in martin luther king speeches he said ltttle white children and black” children can join hands . but wait a minute did’nt they segregate schools again around the early 80 go to any city and go to the black side of town and you see black high schools and in the white mostly suburbs you see white only schools . with a sprinkle of black kids in there to make it look not segregated , so what does all this mean?
it means tax dollars are spend mostly in the white schools , white people pay good for good schools sometimes donating private funds for the schools to have a swimming pool tennis courts , band equipment , while in the black schools teachers are stressed because there are no funds or city tax money given to improvements in their schools ., at all . .why? where are all these rich folks like beyonce and jayz baseball players football players, and politicians ? when this happens. Why aren’t they giving private money to schools to fix them up .? something is in the way of that a power you can’t see ., blocking all these resources from coming in out of fear white kids will be forced to bus to these upgraded schools . or better yet, these schools will produce more sholastic intellligent children .Whom have better chances of not falling victim to the old bad neighborhood upbring . jayz even escaped , i admire jayz for his story to tell how he sold drugs was locked up and still became one of the most famous black folks of our generation ! beyonce grew up with at least a platiunum spoon in her mouth she had things, her father was an example of a hardworking father persueing a dream to make his kids rich or have things. nothing wrong with that , they still would have been educated if he had not done what he dont .joe jackson too micheal jackson father,and mother , and jessica simpson, parents and many others whom were not rich when they started. but jay z is remarkable cause how he got there is not as important as the fact he made it . he sets a standard and a message to all black boys growing up poor his message was not be a rap star and be rich it was more keep your head up you can make it through it all . but dont be no fool either . . it like his message . and dont matter his torment back ground im sure there is more than he want to discuss happen .not judgeing at all.
Im so tired of goverment lieing about their belief in education of our kids . and tap dancing around the truth about our demise and decline on education levels compared to white kdis , this and that ., stop the smoke screen black out lies . its all not true .
Unless a school is 70% white you will see ratchett conditions and blockage of the children’s ability to excelle to greater heights as we know they can , no disrepect for white children . i want all children to learn and grow and become presidents ,lawyers , doctors sholars , and they all deserve equal opportunity to do so ..
stop crying about what nobody will do and start getting laws passed to do it . thats why its called congress we all have access and opinion to take there . just the fact whites too voted obama in office thats a sign that if we work together for the same cause we can do it . we can educate our kids the right way .
there are consequences in life when we start reaching back into the pass trying to find better , the pass was not the better we are trying to escape that pass , there was no lemonade in the shade tree beauty seeing black men hanging from trees , and blacks having to march down the street for equality , there was nothing sexy bout seeing little children hosed down in the streets trying to get rights or spitt on at restuarants just cause you want to be equal ok agreed america has a horrific discusting pass ghost but were still haunted by this same ghost ., movies lif ghost of mississpipi and mississippi burning was a smart idea to make so that our children can see what really happen move pass it and do better . that movie scared me cause i saw the mistakes made by both races . white and black i saw the anger , but yet couldnt see what was fueling it from whties . who were only 30 generations from the real truth of why whites hate blacks as they do still today ., the proof was there smack in our face we still ignored it ., the butler was great too cause you saw how low blacks had to stoop to be equal and have rights . a reflection of yester years we still do not want to acknowleged yet delve in the same actions from then . whites still fear blacks , whites still have no black friends and want let their children be friends even . whites still think blacks are the boggie man out to destroy a whole race . if we were gonna and could destroy their race we would have accomplished that when lincoln freed the slaves , or when black men got a pass it was ok to marry a white woman without being killed . half the country would be of mix raced kids. by now if our goal was to take over this race of racist people .
i swear ignorance runs deep on american sole . all racism is is ignorance and indifference and denial and fear of change . children have been taught to hate and dont know why? think about that next time you see a room full of people and all the whites are on one side and blacks on another .. i notice how blacks are strategically placed sometimes when seated …banding together and dont even know why ? its all so silly and charasmatic of the white race . stop it please stop it ! start with your kids and just stop it . , you only fear the unknown in this world , you fear death cause no one has ever come back to tell you you dont have to fear death . right?
you fear a dark room you never been in because you are unfamiliar with it and you dont know whats inside , you want to know first what your getting into . and if your told theres a monster in there, your gonna go in there armed to fight. but your still dont know what the monster is all about , can it harm you , are you safe , is the monster a loveing hand or and evil force your must arm yourself against . racism is this way its an unknow entitiy unstudied properly and unfamiliar with us for many centuries , even in rome their were racist in bc. therer were racist . .. what is racist to me its fear .
you can not teach harmony unless you have lived it .
no one is gonna force you to have white or black friends but life will continue to be hard for you if you dont try to commmunicate as a people instead of a race of us versus them . this is a pitiful way to live out your precious life hating unknown .
consequences is my favorite thing to talk about because for every thing you do right or wrong there are consequences in life . learn to know you level , and never put up with toxic people racist people are toxic too .
if your whtie learn to know who around you hate others it will help you build better commmunication with people if you know what their beliefs are . what fuels them . and the peace they have in their hearts for hunanity.
peace and love l jane huff blogged by me dec 13th 2014
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